What not to say and topics to avoid on your first date!

Here is a series of comments or never to say on a first date:

1. “What is your favorite Star Trek episode”?
2. “Your so cute… I wanted to kidnap you”
3. “You want to swing by my parents house and say hi”
4. “I have to take a huge shit… seriously, I’m prairie dogging it”!
5. “Your paying for this right”?
6. “It’s cool… the rash has not spread to my lips yet”
7. “Have you ever watched Nicholas Sparks, the notebook?
8. “How many kids do you want”
9. “You so much like my sister”
10. “I Love You”

Here is a series of topics you should avoid on a first date:

1. “Your ex-girlfriend” – The first date should be solely about the girl in front of you, not the whore who screwed you over.
2. “Kids and marriage” – Unless the girl has kids, this should NEVER be a topic.
3. “A recent surgery or illness” – For example, if you recently recovered from an illness like “the shingles”… don’t discuss the awful details over pasta and wine.
4. “Sex” – The only time this is acceptable is if she brings it up. YOU ARE NOT ALLOWED TO BRING IT UP!!!
5. “Financial gain” – It’s ok to talk about your job and even investments; however, never let it get to the point of bragging. Besides, if that’s all she cares about… then you are with the wrong girl!

In the next few days, I plan on really jumping into some of the above topics. I think it’s not only important to understand my thoughts behind this… but also some prime real life examples.

I’m Tony Finch and this is my Boom Stick